February Birthstone: Meaning, Mythology, Care and More
Each month carries a gemstone that carries symbolic weight, cultural lore, and a special appeal. For those born in February, your birthstone is amethyst, a gem of royal purple hues, spiritual depth, and vibrant elegance.
In this post, we’ll dive deep into everything you need to know about amethyst, from myths and meanings to how to choose and care for it.
Along the way, I’ll introduce you to BESEEN’s 14K gold birthstone jewelry, which elevates this gem into wearable art and perfect gifts.
What is a Birthstone?
The concept of birthstones dates back many centuries. The idea is to align certain gemstones with the months (or zodiac signs) to bring personal meaning, protection, or good luck. Over time, the list of birthstones was standardized in various cultures, and today many people wear jewelry featuring their monthly gem as a talisman or meaningful adornment.
Birthstones are more than just decoration, they reflect identity, symbolize traits, and often connect us to nature and history.
February’s Birthstone: Amethyst
Gem Description & Physical Traits
Amethyst is part of the quartz family, and its signature color ranges from pale lilac to deep violet or reddish-purple. Its chemical formula is SiO₂, like other quartz, but trace amounts of iron and irradiation give it the purple hue. With a Mohs hardness of about 7, it is reasonably durable for jewelry use (though it still needs some care).
The name “amethyst” derives from the Greek amethystos, meaning “not intoxicated”, a reference to the belief that it could protect the wearer from drunkenness.
Color & Variations
- Light/pastel purple: Subtle, delicate tone
- Deep royal purple: Rich, saturated color most prized
- Red or violet undertones: Add vibrancy
- Some pieces may have zoning (color variation within same crystal)
History & Mythology of Amethyst
Amethyst has a storied past.
- Ancient Greece & Rome: Legends say Dionysus (god of wine) pursued a maiden named Amethyst. To protect her, the gods transformed her into white quartz. In remorse, Dionysus spilled wine over the quartz, turning it purple. Hence, amethyst was associated with sobriety and clarity.
- The stone was carved into drinking vessels to prevent intoxication.
- During medieval times, amethyst was considered one of the “cardinal gems” (on par with diamond, ruby, sapphire) before large deposits diluted rarity.
- In Christian traditions, bishops often wore rings set with amethyst, symbolizing celibacy, piety, and wisdom.
Meaning, Symbolism & Healing Associations
Amethyst is often associated with:
- Spiritual growth & protection, a stone of clarity and meditation
- Calmness & balance, believed to soothe stress and irritability
- Sobriety & clear mind, historically linked to controlling impulses
- Inner strength & clarity, helping in times of change or confusion
Many wearers believe amethyst helps quiet internal chatter and support emotional stability.
Traditional vs Modern Birthstones
While amethyst is the modern and traditional birthstone for February in most lists, some sources also associate jasper as a February birthstone under traditional schemes. In practice, though, amethyst remains the dominant, well-known February gemstone.
How to Choose a High-Quality Amethyst
When evaluating amethyst jewelry, consider:
- Color saturation & uniformity – Favor medium to dark tones; avoid too pale or overly dark stones that hide brilliance.
- Clarity & inclusions – Eye-clean stones (without visible inclusions) are ideal.
- Cut & symmetry – Well-cut facets increase brilliance and symmetry adds aesthetic appeal.
- Treatment disclosure – Most amethysts are untreated, but always confirm with seller.
- Setting & metal quality – A secure setting (prong, bezel) and high-quality metal (14K or higher) is key for long-term wear.
Care & Maintenance Tips
- Clean with mild soap + lukewarm water and a soft brush
- Avoid ultrasonic cleaners if there are fractures or treatments
- Store separately from harder stones (to prevent scratching)
- Avoid exposure to strong light or heat (color fade possible)
Styling With Amethyst Jewelry
Amethyst’s purple tone pairs beautifully with:
- White gold, silver, or platinum, to highlight contrast
- Yellow or rose gold offers warm, vintage vibes
- Complementary gemstones such as diamonds, peridot, or citrine
You can wear amethyst in everyday pieces (studs, pendants) or bold statement rings and cuff bracelets.
Why Choose 14K Gold Settings?
- Balance of durability & purity, 14K has enough gold to be precious but still robust
- Good value, more affordable than 18K but more durable than 10K
- Hypoallergenic risk is lower (depending on alloy)
- Matches nicely with purple tones, especially yellow or rose 14K
BESEEN’s 14K Gold Birthstone Jewelry
Now, let’s put the spotlight on BESEEN, a brand that crafts 14K gold birthstone jewelry with precision, style, and meaning behind every piece.
Why BESEEN?
- Handcrafted quality: BESEEN emphasizes artisan craftsmanship and attention to detail.
- Genuine materials: Jewelry pieces are crafted in solid 14K gold, giving both durability and luster.
- Birthstone collection: Lineup includes a dedicated birthstone jewelry section (necklaces, rings, etc.).
- Customization & personal touch: They welcome custom designs and personalization.
- Reputation & trust: Etsy shop carries many positive reviews.
While these are examples from the broader birthstone/gem jewelry market, BESEEN offers comparable, and in many cases bespoke, versions made in 14K gold that stand out for their artistry and personal meaning.
How to Shop Smart
- Ask for certification, even for semi-precious gems, a certificate of authenticity boosts trust.
- Check metal marks, genuine 14K should be stamped “14K” or “585”.
- Read seller reviews & photos, see how the pieces look in real life.
- Shipping & insurance, for international orders, ensure insured delivery.
- Warranty/care policy, good brands offer cleaning, resizing, or repair.
Gift Ideas for February Birthdays
- Matching sets: Earrings + pendant in amethyst
- Stackable rings: Combine with other birthstones (e.g. family members)
- Custom engraving: Add initials or dates to the gold band/frame
- Gift packaging & experience: A beautiful box, card with gemstone lore, etc.
BESEEN often accommodates these custom touches, making each gift feel personal and premium.
Conclusion
Amethyst is more than just a pretty gem. For those born in February, it carries emotion, symbolism, and a legacy of significance. When set in quality 14K gold, it becomes jewelry that lasts , both in style and sentiment.
If you're considering a meaningful gift or a personal keepsake, I invite you to check out BESEEN’s 14K gold birthstone collection. Browse handcrafted pieces, customize your dream design, and own a piece of artistry and meaning.
FAQs
1. Can amethyst fade over time?
Yes, exposure to intense sunlight or heat can fade its color slightly. Store jewelry away from direct sunlight.
2. Is 14K gold suitable for everyday wear?
Absolutely. It strikes a balance between purity and hardness, making it ideal for daily-use jewelry.
3. Are there treatments done on amethyst?
Many amethysts are untreated, but some may be heat-treated to enhance color. Always ask sellers for disclosure.
4. How do you clean amethyst jewelry?
Use mild soap, lukewarm water, and a soft brush. Avoid harsh chemicals and ultrasonic cleaners if there are fractures.
5. Can you get a customized piece from BESEEN?
Yes, BESEEN offers custom designs, personalization, and bespoke requests.
6. Why is 14K gold preferred over 10K or 18K for gemstone settings?
14K offers durability (less soft than 18K) while still being high in gold content, and is more hypoallergenic than lower karat alloys.
7. What are the two birthstones for February?
Amethyst (main) and sometimes Onyx (less common/traditional).
8. What are the 5 rarest birthstones?
Alexandrite, Red Beryl, Benitoite, Black Opal, and Musgravite.
9. Why was amethyst chosen for February?
Amethyst symbolizes peace, protection, and clarity, fitting for February’s calm, reflective mood.
10. What is the color for February?
Purple, due to the amethyst birthstone.
11. What is the flower for February?
Violet and primrose are February’s birth flowers.
12. What color dresses to wear in February?
Go for purple, lavender, deep red, or soft pink, romantic and winter-friendly tones.